Hey There! Ok, so I'm not actually a genius. What you can find here is basically a rip-off of Flowplayer.org. The only difference is that I took the logo away, and grepped for all occurences of "flowplayer" and replaced it with "johanneswilmplayer". The thing is GPL, so it's perfectly legal. This player will not be developed at all, and if you represent a company or likewise, it's probably smarter to just instead buy the player from Flowplayer directly.
Source: To comply with the GPL-license I have to make the source code available. Here it is: johanneswilmplayer-src.tar.gz and here is the diff to the original (Flowplayer 2.2.1): johanneswilmplayer.diff.gz.
Binaries: Here you can download the SWF-binaries: johanneswilmplayer-bin.tar.gz. For instructions of setting it up, please refer to Flowplayer.org.
Nucleus CMS plugin: I use this to show flash movies on my site: NP_Fmovie-0.3.tar.gz. This plugin originated here:http://www.fukulog.com/NP_Fmovie.html, but I modified it heavily. This download includes the binaries, you put it all into your plugins dir, instal the plugin and add "<%Fmovie%>" to your head.inc. You basically use it by putting <%media(FILEURL.flv|DESTRIPTION TEXT|WIDTH|HEIGHT|PICTUREURL.jpg)%> into your blog post. DESCRIPTION TEXT, WIDTH, HEIGHT and PICTUREURL are not obligatory, and it will expect for the preview picture to be in the same location with the same basename as the FLV-file.
For an example of all this in action, check my blog: johanneswilm.org